Just an Update.

Coming towards year end, I admit that I DID NOT do any training since November.  All I did was eat, and eat...and eat...okay, you get what I mean...especially those who been in my Facebook, you knew it, you saw it, you comment it.  Oh...the irony of having people like it, loathe it, mock it...you simply just don't understand what's into those people who can't stand seeing me eating and calling me fat - as if I asked you to paid for every food I ate.

Sick with fever, flu and coughing real bad 2 weeks before Sibu Cup, I 'redeemed' myself with more food (yes, shamelessly admit it) as soon as I get better.  I am sorry that it's not been updating in my blog as much as I did in the past (blame Facebook and Instagram for that!).

Here's proof that I am shamelessly declaring that I am not in any diet whatsoever (since many been telling me that I shed a little weight recently, thank you for that!):

tada!!! hehehehehe...please ignore my hair...need to visit the guy who actually give me a great haircut in September, but since I got no time to visit his saloon for a trim, I made a mistake visiting another place nearer and expecting the lady can make it better...wrong move *sigh*

You see...that's why I never grew taller.

If my paintball pants still fits....means I am not fat, yet (right!).  Whatever that means.  

30DBC Day 18: LGBT Among Us...

Few days ago, another news burning up the Twitter and Facebook feeds when the Education Ministry came up with the guidelines to identify LGBT (Lesbians, Gays, Bisexual, Transgenders).  Among the so called 'guidelines' to identify them are: men wearing V-neck shirts, bright colored clothing and carrying women's bag, and yes, having a muscular body.  

I wonder are these guys gay?

Oh, how about guys in sarong? =p

I remember back then during my school times I had few guy friends at school or observed some guys at school who are the 'soft' type.  They love to mingle with girls and girls don't mind to have them in their group.  Try a 'normal' boy...sure kena one lah...back then..no one cares.  School doesn't mind or giving 'counselling' to these kids (non that I heard of back then) because, well...as long as they are academically good - what else is matters.  I had girl friends that loves having short hair, act like a boy, hates wearing anything that looks 'girlie'.  They fought like boys (yep, I punched and slap few boys during my school time too) - but no one makes it into headlines - none that I knew of.

So fast forward to 2012...now that it has started in the school.  Imagine the trauma of certain kids will be...now that with these so called 'guidelines', some kids called for 'counselling' as such to 'fix' them.  Did it came across to these 'smart people's' minds that these kids are now put into unnecessary stress, being taunted at school, an easy target of bullies?

Source

Came in general, every country has these LGBT group.  They were labelled as 'disease'.  Some so called 'religious' crusaders went on about saying that 'it's against God' and started to recite this and that from the Holy Scriptures (I am saying it ALL, not just one particular group).  True, no religion allows it.  Morally, it's wrong.  We knew that.  But...who are we to judge them?  Who are we to discriminate them?

I would say, if we wanted to look at the 'moral' and 'social' issues, we had other problems in hand - racism, corruption, illegal immigrants flooding our country - especially the uncontrolled number of them multiplying in Sabah, baby dumping, baby killings, drugs, teens ran away from home, our kids missing in front of our lawn, ladies became drug mules, scammers online, rapist goes free because they had 'clean record' or 'bright future'..the list goes on and on and on...

But no...some people choose to pick just one category of people to sacrifice.  If you questioning my stand about them - I don't agree on these kind of way of life, but I don't agree that we should cast them aside.  Even some 'smart people' think LGBT should migrate to the West because this is NOT our way of life should be.  Dear sir, just because they don't live they 'way of your life' doesn't mean they had no right to live in this country because this land ain't belong to you alone.  

Who are we to judge who is going to go heaven or hell after this?  

So...think again, who are we to tell them to leave?

The LGBT's are someone's son, someone's daughter.  Someday, it could be one of your kin.  What did they ever did to disturb your life then?  

If they being LGBT is an eyesore to your individual preferences - the problem lies within yourself, your heart that's filled with ego, hatred, prejudice and no difference than a racist.  

Hating them won't make them low.  It's the haters did.

And oh...just so to tell...those guidelines are not correct at all.  It takes more than that to identify who is actually LGBT.  Guess some people don't have any fashion sense at all. =p

Give With All Your Heart.

Recently, Cleffairy shared me a link to her post to help this poor child in monetary donations, and most importantly, blood type O needed for him, urgently.  As I am typing this, the poor child is fighting for his life (he is only 6 years old) and I can imagine the pain he went through because of his illness, and the family that is keeping virgil beside him, wishing and hoping that once bubbly little child will get well soon.  (Story about him is here and here).

As I am in Sabah, and was across the South China Sea away, I did what I think it's right and all I could by sharing it with my friends and posted in walls of the groups I am in, hoping and wishing that even if I can get 1 person out of 100 out there who read and reach out to do something, anything - even giving a drop of blood to this poor child...I am more than happy.  I knew I had done my part to help in the way I knew best.

Sad to say, there are some people are being skeptical, cynical about this.  And it really hurts me.  Look, it doesn't matter if you don't wish to help.  It's okay if you decide not to help even by spreading the news (which cost nothing to you anyway).  It's fine with me.  But it's NOT OKAY when you started to question it as if I am a scam, especially YOU DON'T KNOW WHO I REALLY AM.  So for those who has doubts and if you think you can scare me by wanted to 'go investigate' to find the 'truth'...go ahead, make my day.  But I do wanted to tell you this - I hope what you find makes you happy.  Happy to see how that child suffers, how his family suffers.  Hope that makes your day, NOT!  


So...okay if you read in the link I given is that monetary donation is also appreciated that you think it might be a scam.  But WHO WANT TO SCAM YOUR BLOOD????  To those who wanted to 'investigate' this you may check with anyone you knew at Subang Jaya Medical Centre.  


Remember, there is a father desperately waiting, hoping for his son to get better.  A mother who non stop praying, hoping for a miracle.  That could be you.  The boy could be your son, brother, nephew.  

Isn't it just sad when some people think 'if I give this money...where does it go?' or 'I don't think they will use it for that purpose lah...must be got other motives one.'  look...if you wish to put a coin or two in the donation box - drop it and let it off from your mind.  If you don't wish to do so, just politely go and let it off from your mind.  DO YOU HAVE TO JUDGE?

I am not going to say much more further as Ash Wednesday marks the beginning of the Lent season, which also means I do need to self reflect on myself, one of it is my excessive use of 'colorful words' lately.  But I hope if any of you reading this, do question yourself - whenever you giving alms, help to those in need, do you actually giving it or asking it in return? (Matthew 6:4-18 - Jesus is emphasizing the need for sincerity in the good things we supposed to do to others.  Or is it just for show?)

So...before dropping the coin into the box do think again - if you wanted to give it half heartedly, might as well keep it to yourself.  I might not a devoted Christian to teach you what is right or wrong in our beliefs - but as a human with compassionate heart towards those in need, I do believe in sincerity when giving to others - give and let it off from your mind.  No questions asked, just give it and let it comes from your heart.

Have a blessed Ash Wednesday and Blessed Lent to all.

What's Wrong with You!!!!!!

Today, another animal abuser was caught in CCTV.  Believed to be in Serdang.  The culprit's photos are now widely circulated in Facebook and local forums.  Also said had been published in the local Chinese newspaper.

There's also a video been circulated around.  But due to the gruesome act by the culprit, I myself didn't have the heart to watch it till the end, and decided not to post it here.  But if you insist to watch, here's the link:

http://www.facebook.com/video/video.php?v=1895256344554&oid=276194922385&comments

In the video, the person was caught bashing helpless kittens with an umbrella.  The saddest part is, the mother cat that's nearby tried to save her kittens but failed.  Not satisfied with beating the kittens with the umbrella, the poor animal was stomped to death.  

Last known place where this heartless monster lives is in Sri Kembangan.  She immediately removed her photos and close her profile in Facebook as soon as these were widely circulated.  Where's the so called tough person who only knows how to bashed up helpless animal and now goes into hiding????  Come out in the open if you dare!  

Whoever you are, I hope that you will get the karma that you deserve.  What goes around, comes around.  You read me.  Next time, pick someone your own size!!!!!!