When You Had To Let Go...

A lady has known this man for several years. One day he was sent to outstation to work and little by little, the communications died out and he no longer contacts her. She was still waiting, hoping and until one day, she heard the news that he's already 3 months away from his wedding to someone else.

She had been waiting for 3 years.

3 wasted years...waiting and hoping for a man who hasn't contacted her for that long. True love? Foolish, I might say. Sounds cruel but it's the bitter truth. she confessed that all along there are some good men passed by and she turn them down because of her 'loyalty' to the same man that doesn't care in the world for her, and let go just like that.

No, I am not taking sides here. Both are to blame, if you want me to blame either one. One lady is foolish enough not to realize that when a man stops contacting her for that long, it's time for you to move on. 3 years!!!! Can't she just get the message? This isn't any Mills & Boons or any love-story-worth-the-wait movies. It's about a real life situation, in one real world where reality hurts!

Then there is this one selfish, cowardly man...whom are not man enough to tell her that everything's over. I understand that it might cause some pain to the lady, but doesn't he think that the longer he prolonged the breaking up process, the more agony she has to bear?

So there's this one selfish man and one foolish lady, both live in their own separate ways. One building his happiness for one innocent person that doesn't know the cost of her happiness that was build from another's sorrow; while the other one has to pick up all the pieces one by one.

Life was never fair...if you ask me. One of the saddest thing that ever happened, is loving someone who used to love you. That makes letting go harder.