Time To Speak Up!

In case you been wondering about my previous post, well...it took me days before I can really cool down - and managed to type in a much civilized manner.  I had been angry.  Really angry.  

For you who think you can simply get away with it by deleting your post from my Facebook wall after posting those things, I tell you now - it won't and never change a thing about my perspective and what I think about you - or whoever is behind your profile.  Hypocrites.

Situation goes like this:

There is this kid who had been asking money from my brother, with a reason what he wants it to continue his studies.  Out of goodwill, and remembering that the father has almost half a dozen kids to bear the burden, my brother consented and gave it to him without any condition or whatsoever, just with a hope that the boy will study well.  Pretty soon, from matriculation, that kid quit to Polytechnic college and then soon after that quit again, to enter UiTM.  2 weeks ago, he quit university.  It all happens in just merely months. Reason being - he said studying in UiTM is hard.  =/  

Now, that does cause my brother disappointed - not because of money, really.  But the ungrateful attitude of this boy by simply taking things for granted.  Okay, so he had quit.  What's done is done.  Scared to go home, that boy has been FREELOADING in our proshop for days - not helping out, making a mess, not even wash the dishes after he had eaten, while expecting my niece, who was staying there and currently work for us to get it done for him.  Who you think she is, your personal maid????

So it happened that last weekend is our Sabah Paintball League Finale, and we are really in dire need of extra man power to help out with the technical area.  Guess what, that boy gave excuse that he was sick on the day before and suddenly got the guts to go home!  Imagine that.  

Due to frustration, I posted in my Facebook wall that goes something like this:

"It was only when you are at the hard times then you realised the people around you - its either they are going to stay or run away.  Friends and relatives, they are all the same." (Posted on Oct 2 @ 12:11am)

 Hours later, came all the insults and angry posts from this so not happy person (I kept a print screen, but in order not to make that someone thinks I humiliate him or her, I only post what he/she wrote.)

"Alang2-mandi!!!!..kamu la 2 adik beradik seorang jantan & seorang betina yg terlalu berlagak konon2 sudah kaya & boleh cakap sesuka hati dlm FB termasuk mengutuk saudara sendiri!!mcm binatang yg tak berotak!!!..kalu berani jumpa face to face baaa...!!!!"  

Now...that is the beginning of the heated argument that goes on and on.  With stupid, un-related comments to the main problem of the issue from this pathetic lowlife, my brother has been posting back some facts and this idiot apparently can't defend him or herself and at last, deleting each and every posts they made.  If you in my Facebook list you can view that comment by brother and see that the idiots had deleted theirs.

What I got to say here:

1 - No matter how bad my family members are, never in my life I refer any of them as 'binatang',  'betina' or 'jantan' even due to anger.  Since you point one finger at me, what makes you?  If I am a 'binatang', what makes you then?  We are 'binatang' since you share the same bloodline with me, no matter I like it or not!

2 - I DID NOT MENTION whose name in my status.  WHY SO ANGRY?  Is it because you offended that your son did something wrong that you can't take the fact?  SIAPA MAKAN CILI, DIA TERASA PEDAS.  ^_^V

3 - You wrote in one of your post that you didn't mention who's 'betina' or 'jantan' in my wall.  Hello...read throughly before you spit on the air.  You type 'kamu', means it was a direct insult to me and my brother.  Isn't that get back to you again?

4 - "Berlagak konon2 sudah kaya'?  Since when we parade our wealth to you?  You told my brother that he is 'stupid' because he helped out your son without your knowledge.  Yes, he is stupid because he had compassion for someone ungrateful as you.  As the parent, didn't you ask him where he got the money, since you well aware that this kid is not working??? (I don't even believe it if you don't know he's been asking money) - I sensed jealousy.... =p

5 - I don't mind your kid freeloading at our place.  In fact, they are always welcomed.  But treating our place like some kind of free hotel without helping out - IS THAT YOUR UPBRINGING? 

6 - Posting those insults and deleting it - if you think you are right, you don't have any reason to delete those.  But sadly, we all know what happens lah.  *wink*  There is a malay quote that says, "Lempar batu, sembunyi tangan."  That's what you been doing.  That's how low you are.

7 - Your son sent an SMS saying that he won't be 'causing problem' again and promised to 'pay the money back' as soon as he 'gets a job'.  If you think those had mend the problem, and heal the hearts of people you had hurt by your uncivilized words, get real.

8 - Once again, it's MY Facebook, MY wall, MY post, MY page, MY blog.  Read the disclaimer: If you don't like whatever I write on it, please leave the page and do something useful for your time.  I don't have to type anything that makes you happy or follow your requirements just because you want it your way.  Heard about 'private property'?  Unless Facebook owns by you, then maybe I would comply.  Till then, keep it to yourself before the whole world saw what a loser you are.

Before pointing your fingers at us, make sure your hands are clean. Get a life, will you?