Love Is Not Selfish.

There is this one guy who loves a girl. A couple years ago, the girl had broken off their relationship due to long distance. They still remain friends and he often contacted her, even though he knew that she's already moved on and meeting someone else, he always tell her that he still loves her. exactly 1 year ago, she's married.


Today, the girl called me and asked me for advice. The first guy has been constantly messaging her everyday since the past month, begging her to return back to him because he can't accept the fact that she is already married. Even his mother and sister has been keep on contacting this girl, begging her to accept that guy back into her life, even came up with the story that he is already attempting suicide (still threatening to do so) and that the mom will eventually died of sadness if he really did so.


The guy too, keep on telling her that he only wanted to live with her for the rest of his life and kept on urging her to divorce her husband.


Wow...I heard that love is patient, love is kind, love endures all things...but I never heard that there is someone as selfish as these people. Call me cruel but if it happens to me, I would say "If you want to kill yourself, then go ahead. Because you are such a selfish person that only thinks of yourself without thinking the impact it would cause to others. Just because you are sad, then you want the rest of the world grieve with you." So, it's the girl's fault then if he really kills himself and then, God forbid, his mom died afterwards?


After all, threatening with suicide is not working..at least for me. Such cheap way to ask for sympathy by keep on saying "I will kill myself if you don't return back to me." makes me more sick of wanted to lay eyes on such pathetic, weak, coward people who only wants to gain attention and to get pity from others to get what they wanted. After all, I was told that fella has been threatening to suicide, and attempting to suicide IN FRONT of the presence of his family. Which means, he knew that someone would SAVE HIM IN TIME even before he managed to hurt himself in any other way. If he really serious to do so, he might as well go quietly and go somewhere where no one would find him until his dead body hanging from on a tree and rot.


It happens to my friend. That was exactly what I told her to do. Sounds cruel, but hey, it is better than keep on letting that guy to disturb her peaceful life. If he really loves her, he should have let her go, and let her live happily; not by persuading her to get a divorce so that he would be happy.


Obviously, this guy doesn't know what the word 'LOVE' really means.

All Hell Broke Loose.

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A Miser's Last Wish.

There was a man who had worked all of his life and had saved all of his money. He was a real miser when it came to his money. He loved money more than just about anything, and just before he died, he said to his wife, "Now listen, when I die, I want you to take all my money and place it in the casket with me. I wanna take my money to the afterlife."


So he got his wife to promise him with all her heart that when he died, she would put all the money in the casket with him.


Well, one day he died. He was stretched out in the casket, the wife was sitting there in black next to her closest friend. When they finished the ceremony, just before the undertakers got ready to close the casket, the wife said "Wait just a minute!" she had a shoe box with her, she came over with the box and placed it in the casket.


Then the undertakers locked the casket down and rolled it away.


Her friend said, "I hope you weren't crazy enough to put all that money in the casket."


She said, "Yes, I promised. I'm a good christian, I can't lie. I promised him that I was going to put that money in that casket with him."


"You mean to tell me you put every cent of his money in the casket with him?"


"I sure did, " said the wife. "I got it all together, put it into my account and I wrote him a check."

Not A Good Night at Upperstar

Me, Kay, Winnie and Leanna met up just now at our usual place in Upperstar. Previously, apart from the difficulty of finding a good and 'safe' parking spot just to go there, met up, have some vodka lime and our favorite selection of food from finger foods to lamb chops, sitting in a cozy place...I nothing much to complain about this place until today.


1st Scene:


We decided to sit outside on the ground floor of the premise, having our usual chats, laughs, food and drinks when suddenly, it was interrupted by some kid, believed to be one of the illegal immigrant's children went just few meters of us, yelling at someone inside the premise with a language that we don't understand. Apparently, that kid was seen holding a stick and a brick on each of his hands, with his gang, a girl also holding a stick who is a little bit older than him (they both looked like within 10-12 years old) walking to and fro from the shops nearby, then returned back to the exact place among the patrons that sit outside the place (including us) and start babbling again in his mother language. This happens for a few times that at one occasion, he even threw a rock at one of the metal doors of the closed shops near by.


Each time when he walked back to the place where he first went, he would wave his stick around, causing the other customers that sat around was uncomfortable and even there is one table where there are 2 guys sitting there, quickly finished their drinks and left the premise. My girls and I felt unsafe too. For the first time, we sat there barely for just less than 2 hours we asked for the bill and wanted to leave. With such thing happened in front of you, small rouges carrying stones and sticks, babbling nonsense at non specific there, (maybe high on drugs of Jebsen glue), anything can happen to any of us, right?


2nd Scene, also happened right after the 1st scene:


Before the 1st Scene happened, me and Kay arrived first before Leanna and Winnie. So we both ordered some drinks while waiting for the other girls to arrive. Drinks came and it was already paid. The staff who asked for the payment took the bil and the cash, then we realised the change was never returned. Soon after, another staff came, showed us the bill and we told him it was settled and we are waiting for the change. Leanna and Winnie arrived and placed their orders. Luckily, Scene 1 happened right after Leanna finished her food. So, when we asked for the bill, we were surprised that the first drinks that me and Kay had been paid for was again charged, this time at the 2nd bill.


Luckily Leanna looked through the bill. Or else we would get double charged.


So what I wanted to express here is:


1 - The premise is always been a hangout for both local and foreign customers. I might not know the exact reason why the kids are angry there. But the scene where these foreign kids strolling around there, causing commotion, carrying sticks and stones already enough to scare the customers. These kids might harm anyone around there.


So please, next time do something about them. Call the police or do something. From my observation, most of the staff only looked but did nothing. I swear I saw the boy was swinging his stick around near one of the tables and even walked behind me, still babbling something. Anyone of us could be a random target, you never know. You guys would feel the same too. Prevention is better than cure. So before anything worst happen in future, please do something about these kids!


2 - The Scene 2 incident. Human error. But for whatever the reason is, kindly please becareful in future. The change was not a big deal (it's a small amount anyway), but it is important to remind the staff to concentrate of getting their tasks done one by one to avoid getting forget, in this case,we got one staff collecting the bill from us - afterwards forgot to return the change, then the other staff asking us to pay the paid bill again then another one placed our paid items into a new bill. It could cause miscommunication between us and the staffs. A staff can do multitasking but it doesn't mean that he/she get each job half done then mix it all up, in the end no one knew the beginning and no one knew how to reach the end, leaving a furious customer wondering things they aren't supposed to.


Well...I guess it's just not our night for the Friday then. Sheesh. =.=

How Old Am I?

A woman decides to have a face lift for her birthday. She spends $5000 and feels pretty good about the results.


On her way home, she stops at a news stand to buy a newspaper. Before leaving she says to the clerk, "I hope you don't mind me asking, but how old do you think I am?"


"About 32," is the reply. "I'm exactly 47," the woman says happily.


A little while later she goes into McDonald's and asks the counter girl the very same question. She replies, "I guess about 29."


"Nope, I'm 47." Now, she's feeling really good about herself.


She stops in a drug store on her way down the street. She goes up to the counter to get some mints and asks the clerk the same burning question. The clerk responds, "Oh, I'd say 30."


Again she proudly responds, "I am 47, but thank you."


While waiting for the bus to go home, she asks an old man the same question. He replies, "Lady, I'm 78 and my eye sight is going. Although, when was young, there was a sure way to tell how old a woman was. It sounds very forward, but it requires you to let me put my hands under your bra. Then I can tell you exactly how old you are."


They wait in silence on the empty street until curiosity gets the best of her. She finally blurts out, "What the heck, go ahead."


He slips both of his hands under her blouse and under her bra and begins to feel around very slowly and carefully. After a couple of minutes of this, she says, "Okay, okay, how old am I?"


He completes one last squeeze of her breasts, removes his hands, and says, "Madam, you are 47."


Stunned and amazed, the woman says, "That was incredible,
how could you tell?" The old man replies, "Promise you won't get mad?"


"I promise", she says. He replies, "I was behind you in line at McDonald's."