'Teman Terlebih Mesra'? =.=

I love make friends - no matter what background they are, or what age. Whether they are straight or gay - I still can be their friend and I won't judge them for who they are. Seriously. Those who knew me in real life knows this one fact about me. But what if someone wants more than just 'friend'?

I knew this man from my aunt during a family's New Year celebration from my other aunt's house in Inanam 4 years ago. He's divorced, had a son who's in his early 30's that currently stays overseas with his ex-wife, so you can imagine that this man is old enough to be my father. So, being as a friendly person I was (perasan ni~ hahahaha), he sat at the corner of the dining area, companied only by my aunt Christina (that invited him over), I take my role on behalf of the host, keeping him company and talked to him most of the time as my cousins prefers to entertain among themselves - they said that they don't have any topic to talk to him.

He is a businessman. As that time I am learning to get into running our family's small business, I find it interesting to talk to him as he shares a lot about the business world. So, few weeks after that first meeting, he asked me out to dinner and I accepted - after all he's asking my aunt Christina for my number so as to respect him as my aunt's friend, that's why I find there is not harm in making friends with him, yet.

However, when I was strolling in Warisan Square with Leanna last week, he called up and asking how am I doing (it's been months since we last saw each other last year) and things like that - asking me when I am free so that we can go out for a nice dinner again. It should be fine until he mentioned "Life is too short, if you think you should go for it, then do it - or you will regret later. A young lady like you should enjoy your life more."

Okay. I should enjoy my life more? I am enjoying my life now! Then he remarked "You already knew I had lots of girlfriends around. They are just friends and we are doing just fine. I have my needs and they have their needs as well, we just simply give each other what we wanted and yet maintain the friendship, isn't it wonderful?" Uh...correct me if I am wrong, but the term 'needs' feels like it was referring to 'lust' and yes 'SEX' in my own definition. I was totally speechless!

Well, now...again, I repeat, I love having new friends. But SEX is NOT part of my friendship package. Sure, I would appreciate a friendly hug or a peck on the cheek - but I never had the mind that taking off my clothes and go for a romp on the bed is part of the 'friendship' thingy!

Just a while ago, he sent me an SMS "Hi, just want you to know that I am thinking of you." Charming...but not on me. Dinner? No. He'd be lucky if I ever reply his SMS or answer his call after this. An experience player with his own game - I am not into it. Sorry, but I am not 'just another lady' nor do I put SEX as part of my friendship package. There goes one 'friend' crossed from my list.

'Teman Terlebih Mesra'...my foot!!!!!! =/