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I read the news that recently a video caused an uproar among Facebook users and netizens.  No, we are not talking about 'that' video.  It was said that a student uploaded a video taken in his/her school that shows a female student was bullied. 

I went to search for the said video in Youtube just to see if it's as simple as the news reported.  And what I saw is way beyond my imagination.  The victim was crying and the people around her were laughing and strangled her with a neck tie, even cut her hair!  She was humiliated, laughed at. =(



Few questions came in my mind after I watched it.

1 - What has she done to deserve this?
2 - Are these bullies are taught to bully others?  If any of you bully answer me this:  Did your parents taught you to disrespect others, to humiliate them as you please?
3 - Where are the other classmates?  Were they present at the time the incident happened, if they did, were they just looking helplessly or join in the taunting party?
4 - The person who recorded the incident...please put yourself in her shoes - you were bullied, humiliated and she's the one who recorded it.
5 - What happened to teens nowadays?  

Bullies are people who feel superior taking on the people who are weaker than themselves.  In other word, COWARDS. If you love bully the weak so much, why don't you 'level up' yourself and try bully someone with your own size or bigger???  

Just watching at the video really makes me angry.  To the authorities, I read that a police report has been made by this girl's father.  I read that the students had 'apologized' too.  'Sorry' only after you been exposed is not enough.  Because if no one highlights this, you will roam in the streets happily and bullying others the same.  I hope you all get what you deserved for bullying her, and it's a warning to yourself in future and all the bullies out there, that bullying also a crime.  If you feel happy by destroying someone's life and strip them off their dignity, try imagine if you been treated the same.

The next time you wanted to raise your hand, or open your mouth to get at someone, think of the consequences.  Because sometimes, 'sorry' might be just too late.


Updated on 10/05/2011:
- The bullies have since been suspended from school for 2 weeks and counselling.  Fair?  No...I personally think suspension won't do any good.  They should been given much more stern disciplinary action.

11 comments:

CathJ said...

I am so angry watching this too.. sometimes make me so scared when its time to send my kids to school.. I think school must have something like security that always go round classes and school compound.. This is horrible... cutting others hair.. ?? OMGosh...

AngeL BeaR said...

yeah...i agree that schools better had a security do rounds to see if things went okay in all classrooms. nowadays py teens mcm2...ni baru form 1 suda mo tunjuk samseng... =/

Isabel said...

Panasnya hati bila tgok video ni. Not even 1 student yg mau tolong or just report it to the teachers ka? Baru form 1 ja lagi tu..

AngeL BeaR said...

isabel: tu la..baru form 1 suda tunjuk samseng...kalau dibiar ni..bila besar ntah jadi apa....

Unknown said...

When my son asked me if i wanted to watch this video clip, i told him no, then he asked me why, i then told him,,,,,," i just cannot watch someone being bullied and i can't do anything about it"........then i said son," don't be a bully and don't be afraid of bullies,,,,"

It is just so sad, I mean look at the world now, what is really going wrong with this..........

AngeL BeaR said...

Eugene: yes, it really breaks my heart when I see how these teens are capable of doing these kind of mental and physical torture towards others at such young age.

Tina said...

Good post, Angel. Many parents have no idea what can happen in school. Some kids (maybe because they're really cowards) gang up with like-minded friends and become very abusive towards one child.

Saying sorry, after the damage has been done, is too little and too late. What's more important is to make these hooligans realise what they did was wrong. Maybe to them it was just 'fun', no big deal. Maybe they were sorry only because the bullying was exposed.

AngeL BeaR said...

a bully like this girl only dare because she got friends back her up. sad to say, she only got 2 weeks suspension from school. which is unfair.

nc said...

i guess bullying is a way for the weak to show that they are strong..kunun. sad.

HoneyBUZZin said...

It breaks my heart over and over and over again seeing it to the very last.......

I feel like slapping every each one of them..pulling every stand of their hair...HAIYAaaaaaaaaaaaaaa...kin panas

AngeL BeaR said...

nc: best ba they feel if can bully the weak...feel so big already...

Honey: sama la..ikut hati mcm mo tampiling satu2 ni....kici2 suda samseng...

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